educers draw you in by the focused, individualized attention they pay to you. Anti-Seducers are the opposite: insecure, self-absorbed,and unable to grasp the psychology of an-other person, they literally repel. Anti-Seducers have no self-awareness, and never realize when they are pestering, imposing,talking too much. They lack the subtlety to create the promise of pleasure that seduction requires. Root out anti-seductive qualities in yourself, and recognize them in others—there is no pleasure or profit in dealing with the Anti-Seducer.